De ce ne mândrim că ne merge prost?
Cine doarme mai puțin. Cine mănâncă mai rar sau deloc. Cine nu are deloc timp pentru propria persoană. Cine e mai stresat. Cine o duce cel mai rău la muncă. Cui îi e cel mai greu să se ocupe de copii. Cine ia mai multe medicamente și bea cea mai puțină apă. De multe ori sesizez că, discuțiile între doue persoană, sunt parcă o competiție pentru cine se plânge mai mult.
Să fie oare adevărat? De ce e așa de bine să ne meargă prost și de când a ajuns asta un motiv de mândrie?
N-am mai pus mâna pe o carte / n-am mai mers la film de nu mai știu când.
N-am mai dormit mai mult de X ore de ani de zile.
N-am mai mâncat cum trebuie de știu câte săptămâni.
Nu am timp să beau apă, nu am timp să fac sport, nu am timp să mă ocup de mine.
Aud des aceste fraze și uneori le spun și eu. Dar îmi doresc să nu le mai spun. Aș vrea mai degrabă să vorbesc despre filme și piese de teatru, chiar dacă doar am auzit despre ele și nu le-am văzut încă, decât despre medicamente și boli. Pentru mine o astfel de interacțiune este obositoare.
Găsesc des în jurul meu oameni care mă inspiră într-un fel sau altul, să fac și eu mai bine și, aș vrea să vorbesc mai degrabă cu ei decât cu cei care se plâng pentru că, așa voi rezista și eu tentației de a mă plânge.
Spun asta des în ultima vreme dar, chiar așa simt: se cere mult de la noi. Și asta m-a adus de multe ori aproape de scurt-circuit. Pentru că standardele care ni se impun sunt absolut nerealiste iar societatea nu e nicicum mulțumită, orice ai alege.
Aș vrea să nu ne mai lăudăm cu orele peste program, epuizarea și nopțile nedormite. Deși ele fac parte din viață, ar trebui să le considerăm o excepție și nu o regulă după care să ne ducem viața. Nu-i mereu simplu să găsești soluții pentru a face ceva pentru tine dar, uneori, se poate. Și poate acelea sunt momentele pe care ar trebui să le aducem în discuție mai des.
Tu ce crezi? De ce ne lăudăm mai degrabă cu greutățile noastre decât cu reușitele și momentele frumoase?
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